I visit a woman at a nursing home, as part of a social work class. Today, she told me (more than once...though she probably didn't know that) that being grumpy and grumbling about this and that will make you sick. Even though you may have to make your own happiness, life is much better that way. And it's better to be crazy than grumpy. I love that and I probably needed to hear it.
She also pointed to a picture like this one and said, "That's my boyfriend."